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How Collectivism Shapes Identity
Collectivism both affirms and threatens base human needs, desires, and expressions. I explore the concept of collective group identity, as opposed to the more Western idea of individual identity.
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Memories (poetry collection)
unpacking violence is much more than an art form, it’s a way of life passed from tongue to teeth to tender limb like an electric shock rattling and shattering, breathing in new life, regurgitating exhaust fumes and stale air, swollen memories of safety and assurance, mixing whole truths with well-intended lies, not the kind you…
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Dealing with Dissociation
In this article I explore dissociation as a coping mechanism in an attempt to overcome this complex mental phenomenon in regards to it being a response to stress and trauma. Our bodies have unique ways of protecting us. Under duress we might be able to react with strength and fortitude that prosaic life doesn’t equip…
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Beware of Hormonal Birth Control
On my personal journey to relieve my endo pain, I relay some of the negative effects that birth control has had on my body as I call the safety of the pill into question, particularly for individuals like myself who struggle with depression. At age 25, the last several months have been the first time…
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This is Why You Should Not Die
Today is World Suicide Prevention Day. If you want to die, or if you’re worried that someone you know is suffering from depression or suicidal ideation, please give this a full read first. I will wear these scars on my arm for my whole life. People try to tell me that they will fade, and…
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Theoretically Thriving in Throuplehood
In today’s article, I explore certain dating arrangements that are considered taboo in polite society, but are gradually becoming more accepted, including throuples and other forms of polygamy. What constitutes a “socially acceptable” couple? Once upon a time we lived in a society where interracial dating was considered taboo. (And you’re kidding yourself if you…
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Dealing with Narcissistic Personalities
Today I’m going to examine narcissistic personality disorder with the goal of helping vulnerable people avoid being controlled by textbook narcissists. If you’re anything like me, your personality is a narcissist’s feeding ground. Don’t roll over and allow narcissistic personalities to control your life. In the age of social media, it seems like everyone is…
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Exposing the Toxic Softboy
In this lighthearted yet cutthroat article, I break down what exactly a “toxic softboy” is in order to expose their manipulative agenda. Note: explicitly language is used. Welcome to navigating people in 2019! If you’re over the age of 25, then the term “softboy” might not ring any bells. (Phew, I just made the cutoff!)…
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What Does it Mean to Starve?
Warning: this article might be triggering for individuals with eating disorders. Here I share my personal experiences with starvation, analyze hunger on a more clinical level through supported studies, and finally report a starvation exercise in which I abstain from eating for a small period of time in order to relay the personal effects of…
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How to Avoid Being Gaslighted
In this article I explore gaslighting, one of the psychological tactics that are employed in unhealthy relationships. Know how to spot signs of this manipulation in order to avoid falling prey to psychological control. Are you ready to reclaim your power? What constitutes an unhealthy relationship? There are obvious signs, such as violence or pervasive…